Meet Me

My Mission is to Activate and Expand

Love Consciousness on Our Planet

Self Improvement - Self Love - Self Worth - Self Acceptance

So that You Can:

Have love-rich, reciprocal, harmonious, and fulfilling relationships

Have a life you are madly in love with 

Be a role models for life & relationships ‘done your way’.

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Being a Love Seeker means you’re on a journey of exploration about love, being loved and having a life you love. You’re someone who believes our world needs more love, you love humanity and our planet.  ~ Dr. Dar

Love Seeker Stamp of Approval If Any of These Words Resonate For You, You Are a Love Seeker

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  • Givers
  • Outliers
  • Observers
  • Creatives
  • Life-long Learners
  • Misfits
  • Feel unaccepted or unloved
  • Silent Types
  • Introverts Living as Extroverts
  • Love-Believers
  • Right-Brained in a Left-Brained World
  • Feel Left Out (Family, friends, work, etc.)
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  • Want to do it My Way-ers, but don’t know how to get started
  • Peace Makers, at the sacrifice of themselves more often than not
  • Stand up for others, but not for themselves
  • Recovering Nonconformists
  • No Box for Me Types, but feel boxed in
  • Black Sheep (to the conformists)
  • Rule Stretchers
  • Underdogs
  • Peace Makers
  • Unappreciated
  • Tired of not fitting in – in the systemic, one size/solution fits all world
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Welcome Love Seeker™ – Let’s Activate and Expand Love Consciousness, together, on our Planet.

HERE’S MY MIND-BASED BIO:

Dr Dar

Dr. Dar, whose given name is Darshana Hawks, is the love luminary for the next wave of women and men who want to leave the 100% left brained, 100% brain oriented way of work, relationships, and living.

These evolutionary and illuminated men and women are feeling a call for a change; a shift to free will, feeling the addition of right+left brain balance, heart-based, and love-ability to have lives they are madly in love with.

Her widely loved course “Exploring Love” gives you a fresh and introspective path to create an outro-spective life you are madly in love with (and you betcha – in all areas of your life)!  Dar helps women and men embrace their heart intelligence to then guide their minds, be uniquely themselves in a world of conformity, feel great, and take back loving their lives with their free will and power of choice.

She is an internationally known speaker, author, and entrepreneur who helps men and women transform their Mind-Set into a Fabulous Heart-Set Life. Find her at www.Love-Luminary.com.

Want to see my Choose Love Manifesto, Our Business Values, Principles, and Values? you can here.

What’s Up with this Love-Ability Stuff?

I help women and men like you get past your heart and mind blocks so you can have a life you adore. You no longer have to feel icky about not fitting into this left-brained world.   You no longer have to feel unaccepted, under appreciated, or unloved.  You can and will leverage the intelligence of your heart which then guides your mind to have thoughts, words, and actions that are love-rich.

I call myself Your Love Luminary™ (which means one who inspires others), am a Love, Life, & Relationship Coach, and creator of the Love-Ability Factor Quiz.  As someone who never quite fit in with the ‘It Crowd’, a rebel, misfit, giver by nature, and believer in the power of love…I’ve found there are millions of us that fit into this new ‘It Crowd’ I’m calling Love Seekers™.

HERE’S THE THING, LOVE SEEKER, (MAY I CALL YOU THAT NOW?), I CREATE SAFE, TRUST-RICH PLACES FOR WOMEN AND MEN TO TALK ABOUT THE PARTS OF THEIR LIFE AND SELVES THAT ARE SUCKY. WE BE, DO, and HAVE LOVE IN A COMPLETELY UNIQUE AND TRANSFORMATIONAL WAY TO THE ‘EXPERTS’ IN THE DATING, LOVE, RELATIONSHIPS, AND LIFE COACH BUSINESS.

Honestly – they don’t understand why we sometimes feel like we are not worthy or how their feedback and opinions affect us.  In fact, they may even take advantage of that by pushing you into the next self-help, self-improvement, achieve this or that book, course, or workshop or bootcamp.  I know be-cause I have experienced it in my life and wallet many times over.

I get it.

You’re now invited into a community of Love Seekers that expands to being worldwide, with your help, of course.  A world where it’s okay to talk and live from your heart and be loved and accepted for who you are, quirks, uniqueness, and ALL!

We get it.

Sometimes you’re scared. Sometimes you’re embarrassed. Sometimes this world and the egotistical, self-centered, mental peeps trigger all your deeply buried fears about yourself…and quite frankly I too fall into that space where I just want to stay at home in my cave…but by not putting our LOVE-ABLE selves out into the world, how will it shift or change?  That’s my WHY, to transform

That’s my WHY, to transform the world to become more love-rich and heart-based.  And, I can do that with your help and heart-based shift!

No worries, I’m here to help.

You can expect being heard and understood from me. I’m your loving INFP, Mental Projector, Gemini, Enneagram 9, Magician BFF. (I just had to throw those personality assessment labels for those of us who seek to understand ourselves more deeply through ‘tests and quizzes’.

I’m also the one who tells you that you are loved,  love-able and lovable…and doles out tough love when invited or called for. I tell you that you can value yourself fully for all that is YOU, and I mean EVERYTHING (remember all the things people have said about you to your face or behind your back, that may be true for you, and you may even say them about yourself as well – yep, those too!).   AND, I am here to tell you that you’re fabulous just the way you are; that you don’t have to change who you are for any reason other than of your choosing.

With joy and love.

I love creating free love-spiration, love bytes, with shares from my heart and play in this newly created Love Seekers Facebook group, which you’re totally invited to join….All Absotively free. (And, I create new words all the time, or combine words…it’s one of my quirks.  BTW, Absotively is a word combo of Absolutely and Positively, in case you were wondering :-).  And I love smileys and hearts.

Talking about my favorite subject, LOVE-ABLE YOU! lights me up. Inspiring you to love your delightful self, shift from a mindset to heart-set led life, and having a life you are madly in love with is what my business is about.

If you need permission to fully, delightfully, and affirmatively love yourself and your life, I humbly give it to you.

I can say with honesty, that LOVE and HEART-BASED THINKING, DOING, AND BEING is the magic life sauce for us Love Seekers™.

Bringing more love into our world is what we’re all about, right!  I know you feel it too…it’s desperately needed…and we can do this together.

IT’S ABOUT CREATING YOUR VERSION OF YOUR LIFE THAT YOU ARE MADLY IN LOVE WITH.  ONE WHERE YOU GET OUT OF BED, FEELING LOVED, AND JOYFUL EVERY DAY.

With much love and respect,
Dr. Dar

HERE ARE 7 QUIRKY FACTS ABOUT ME:

  • I’m an introvert (who has spent most of her life thinking she was an extrovert) who transforms into an extrovert when connecting with Love Seekers™. I just need lots of alone time. And, I need and love my naps.
  • I used to be an adrenalin junkie – triple diamond downhill skiing in a snowy blinding downpour; tandem jumping; body building; rock climbing outdoors on really huge rocks; my day at Sebring International Raceway in my husband’s sexy Corvette…and now have shifted to self-care after not one but two rotator cuff surgeries along with loving being a home body – hmmm, that may be why.
  • I won a trip to St. Thomas with all the high mucky mucks in my mid-20’s from a ginormous telecommunications corporation for my work in Customer Service supporting 20 Fortune 500 companies.
  • My mother put me in ballet class…followed by tap…which is where I learned that I am not graceful…we finally figured out that gymnastics and Tae Kwon Do was more my thing…for my leggy strength.
  • My first foray into entrepreneurship, well sort of, was during the holidays selling…wait for it…battery operated massage pillows.  I was the top sales person luring shoppers with sore feet and backs to try them.  My next foray was selling diamonds at a high-end jewelry store, again during the holidays…that’s where I fell in love with diamonds along with my first experience of being fired for being the best sales person because the store needed to retain all of their staff after the holidays.  I’ve learned a great deal about heart stabbing lessons since then too.
  • I love tie dye, purple, colorful jigsaw puzzles, and quilting.
  • I have 2 fur, actually, hair, babies…be-cause I am allergic to fur…they truly are my children who teach me something or remind me to be loving every day.  One is my emotionally intelligent one and the other shows me a lot about focus and intention.  Together they are love bugs along with my darling hubby.

WANT MORE DAR?

Let’s connect, I’d love to hear your voice! You’re invited to book 39 minutes of time on my calendar, totally free!

>> CONNECT WITH ME <<

Some things for you to know about:

  • Please note that we don’t respond to unsolicited pitches.
  • If you’d like to interview Dr. Dar, please fill out the following form.
  • If you just want to say ‘hi!’ – the best place for us to meet is on my Facebook page here or via Twitter – @loveluminary
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